I recently read a book based on some very unflattering, but sincere male opinions and views on women. In my other blog I once spoke of how women do not have all the answers or hold the standard for being honest in relationships. We commonly feel more empathetic towards women because they do emote their hurt feelings more than men. Women can be more fragile at times and even more easily misguided in relationships at times.
However, we must not forget the less than sweet women, who wound the hearts of men mercilessly. Some women can be so cold towards a man, whose heart she knows she is breaking, that she could easily be mistaken for his worst enemy. To paraphrase the quote I read, "When a women grows tired of her man, she will destroy him."
How cold and how cruel to have such a point of view.
There are other women who have witnessed such coldness towards a decent man. They themselves wonder why a woman could be so cold towards a nice guy. They know that they would welcome the "problems" of that man at any moment of their lives and that the woman is being really cold and picky - or simply going through some "changes".
Believe me I am quite familiar with the cold, uncaring, hurtful and immature behavior of men. I am a man. I've witness these things over the years. I'm just writing this to remind us all that women can clearly be at fault as well. Not all men are evil or the "responsible" party in a break up.
Love in relationships is supposed to heal, not wound deeper. Friendship in a relationship is suppose to remind both parties that "we are in this together". If you cannot be in it together, than at least chose to amicably do it apart from one another. Otherwise you just have two miserable people imposing their misery onto others.
Love helps makes us feel better...not worse.
However, we must not forget the less than sweet women, who wound the hearts of men mercilessly. Some women can be so cold towards a man, whose heart she knows she is breaking, that she could easily be mistaken for his worst enemy. To paraphrase the quote I read, "When a women grows tired of her man, she will destroy him."
How cold and how cruel to have such a point of view.
There are other women who have witnessed such coldness towards a decent man. They themselves wonder why a woman could be so cold towards a nice guy. They know that they would welcome the "problems" of that man at any moment of their lives and that the woman is being really cold and picky - or simply going through some "changes".
Believe me I am quite familiar with the cold, uncaring, hurtful and immature behavior of men. I am a man. I've witness these things over the years. I'm just writing this to remind us all that women can clearly be at fault as well. Not all men are evil or the "responsible" party in a break up.
Love in relationships is supposed to heal, not wound deeper. Friendship in a relationship is suppose to remind both parties that "we are in this together". If you cannot be in it together, than at least chose to amicably do it apart from one another. Otherwise you just have two miserable people imposing their misery onto others.
Love helps makes us feel better...not worse.
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