Some days you wake up wanting to give a hug...and some days you wake up wanting a hug...
I know I've met some people who don't like to be hugged. They get stiff and cold when put into that situation. It's amazing that anyone can grow up feeling that way. From the time we're born there's someone hugging us, while feeding us or burping us. Or at least there is supposed to be. Perhaps that's why those people who eventually grow up fearing a hug began to feel that way? When they needed a hug the most in their development after birth, there was no one there to give it? Or the hugs that they asked for were eventually betrayed by the person they trusted when they hugged them? It's a shame actually. Hugs are the most naturally nice gestures in all of life...just like a smile.
A hug a day. Give it and try to receive it.
I know I've met some people who don't like to be hugged. They get stiff and cold when put into that situation. It's amazing that anyone can grow up feeling that way. From the time we're born there's someone hugging us, while feeding us or burping us. Or at least there is supposed to be. Perhaps that's why those people who eventually grow up fearing a hug began to feel that way? When they needed a hug the most in their development after birth, there was no one there to give it? Or the hugs that they asked for were eventually betrayed by the person they trusted when they hugged them? It's a shame actually. Hugs are the most naturally nice gestures in all of life...just like a smile.
A hug a day. Give it and try to receive it.
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